tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84679112024-03-07T09:54:52.567+01:00Outside InAlex Grech's blogAlexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.comBlogger103125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-28326459888375048742011-08-03T22:09:00.001+02:002011-08-03T22:09:56.190+02:00Blog moveThe blog has moved to alexgrech.posterous.com.Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-8783312892798671602010-02-04T22:58:00.001+01:002010-02-04T23:02:03.411+01:00Gil Scott-Heron's comebackWelcome to a masterpiece.
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<br /><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=9,0,0,0" width="300" height="500" id="videoplayer.prt1" align="middle"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="movie" value="http://gilscottheron.net/widget/gilscottheronalbum.swf" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="bgcolor" value="#000000" /> <embed src="http://gilscottheron.net/widget/gilscottheronalbum.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#000000" width="300" height="500" name="videoplayer.prt1" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="always" allowFullScreen="true" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-83253517668788330652009-11-25T14:36:00.003+01:002009-12-15T22:11:53.063+01:00Time-travellingWhen Bohemian Rhapsody, Queen were in full pomp, and a generation of kids was in awe of the Muppets.<br /><br />Thirty four years later, it seems like nothing's changed much.<br /><br /><object width="560" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/cGlTzt24Izw&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/cGlTzt24Izw&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="560" height="340"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-16265778770962849572009-11-06T19:38:00.004+01:002009-11-06T20:05:13.312+01:00Lennon and the social webYesterday, I gave a talk on how social media can be used within a business environment. It was fun, and exhausting. And apparently I still wave my hands too much and cover my face when I'm trying to make a point. The joys of how others see us.<br /><br />And today, I came across this clip on Yoko Okono's site. And I thought: can you imagine what John Lennon would have done if he'd had access to the social web, like we have today?<br /><br />Put the right tools at the disposal of creatives, dreamers, heretics and doers. And watch the world change.<br /><br /><br /><br /><object width="400" height="300"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=1965247&server=vimeo.com&show_title=1&show_byline=1&show_portrait=0&color=&fullscreen=1" /><embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=1965247&server=vimeo.com&show_title=1&show_byline=1&show_portrait=0&color=&fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="300"></embed></object><p><a href="http://vimeo.com/1965247">WAR IS OVER! (If You Want It)</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/yokoono">Yoko Ono</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-3769576598774437062009-09-10T16:42:00.002+02:002009-09-10T16:49:53.205+02:00The Cat PianoWhen my family is away, I am reacquainted with the needs and aberrations of our 12 year-old cat. It's always a timely reminder of how interesting all things feline can be.<br /><br /><br /><object width="400" height="225"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=3985019&server=vimeo.com&show_title=1&show_byline=1&show_portrait=0&color=&fullscreen=1" /><embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=3985019&server=vimeo.com&show_title=1&show_byline=1&show_portrait=0&color=&fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="225"></embed></object><p><a href="http://vimeo.com/3985019">The Cat Piano</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user532199">PRA</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-41295149327128472162009-08-02T19:42:00.004+02:002009-08-04T16:05:09.722+02:0048 going 100It's the end of a week when I have gone back to studying, lost a friend and turned 48. I'm still learning to join the dots, do the best I can for the ones I love, and find a tribe where I can be comfortable in my own skin.<br /><br />Someday, I want to go and watch the Cure. <br /><br /><object width="640" height="505"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/lkelr1HunO0&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0&hd=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/lkelr1HunO0&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0&hd=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="640" height="505"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-42579501575975070852009-07-29T14:08:00.011+02:002009-07-30T21:34:47.459+02:00For Dennis VellaIf you wanted to be pedantic, Dennis Vella and I would not have been considered to be 'close friends'. Not in the sense that we met regularly every week. But we <span style="font-style:italic;">were</span> friends over a long period of time. And when we did meet, often bumping into each other in Valletta, or at some concert, it was difficult not to get engrossed in some conversation on art, food, love, music and the movers and shakers in Malta who would occasionally rudely interrupt Dennis's world. <br /><br />For a short period of time, when I was setting up Heritage Malta, I was technically his boss. He was patiently waiting for some bureaucratic mountain to be moved so he could finally do what he was born to do: get people to understand that modern art in Malta deserved a museum and that artists deserved a voice, a friend, a scholar to put what they did into context. <br /><br />Everyone has a personal picture of Dennis. Mine is goggle specs, a book on Sciortino seemingly permanently tucked under his arm, even in the middle of a drunken party. Vague, smiling, wispy, gentle, anarchic, elegant, even dapper, sometimes. A fine chef. Owner of a Pandora's treasure chest of art at his house - many of them artists he had discovered, encouraged, sponsored. He bought my brother Shaun's piece called 'Three White Scum' for the museum just as racism started to rear its ugly head in this country.<br /><br />A brave guy, easy to forget, particularly if he came to stay with you - because he could bury himself in a book or spend hours admiring something in your house that you had forgotten you owned. Never ever boring. He once cooked this incredible lamb casserole, and being the only single guy at the lunch party, kept a spare seat for a Russian icon he had just bought from some antiquarian in London.<br /><br />Now he's gone, at 56, I just hope someone will have the grace to see his lifetime project to its conclusion. And set up a Museum of Modern Art in Malta, in his memory.<br /><br />So many of us have lost a person that in some way, contributed to making our lives more interesting - and this country, that much more bearable. <br /><br />Yesterday, as I was preparing to leave my office, my eye caught a Norbert Attard print I have hanging on the wall. It's an old present from Dennis, to coincide with my return to Malta, all those years ago. It's called 'Intelligence of the Heart.'<br /><br />I'm just so glad I bumped into you, Dennis, over the past 30 years.Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-4242022673199731342009-07-12T10:35:00.002+02:002009-07-12T10:40:17.702+02:00Three men and Everest<span style="font-style:italic;">Marco Cremona, Dr Greg Attard and Robert Gatt plan to climb the sixth highest mountain, Cho Oyu (8,201metres) this September, and Mount Everest in May 2010 in their challenge8000 expedition. This is their story. But there are also others in on their adventure: Victor Saunders, their guide; and the three women who live with them. </span><br /><br />Marco Cremona, 40, is a man in a hurry. A wiry man in perpetual motion, he speaks quickly. The conversation veers from green issues - at the core of his business as a mechanical engineer and environmental consultant - to the mountain boots he has just bought online for Euros 690 from a US specialist store. At an altitude of 8,000 metres and in minus 40 degrees, size 40 feet need size 45 boots to accommodate thick socks and swelling. <br /><br />Dr Greg Attard is next to show up. At 32, he’s a cross between a rugby player and a 1960s’ Rock Hudson. He lets Marco do the talking. A query about whether Maltese climbing mountains is akin to Jamaicans doing bobsleigh at the Olympics is met with a shrug. <br /><br />The answer comes later in an email from Robert Gatt, the third man in the challenge8000 team. “We’ve lots of good quality rock climbing in Malta. From rock climbing in Malta, it’s a natural progression to other climbing disciplines and bigger challenges.” Climbing is also a natural way for Robert to live. “Whether it’s a sun drenched rock wall in Malta, fell running on a wet English day in the Lake District, climbing up a frozen waterfall in Italy, an Alpine gully in Chamonix or a Himalayan peak in Nepal, it’s my passion,” he says. <br /><br />The three did not discover mountains at the same time. Greg was always an all-action type; a Scout, in love with the outdoors. By 17, he’d started to travel. In the summer vacations on his medical course, he’d go for an elective exchange and spend two months a year climbing in eastern Europe and Greece. Marco got the mountain bug when he decided to join the Kilimanjaro One project. “After that climb I was hooked. I met Greg when I went to Etna for training. Robert I knew socially.” Marco is the glue among the men, and the expeditions. <br /><br />The three were consistently climbing higher mountains; raising the bar by 500 metres with each climb. This September, the team plans to tackle Cho Oyu, the world’s sixth highest mountain. At 8,201m, it is the standard preparatory trail for Everest. The technicality of both mountains is similar – oxygen is required, and the expedition can take anywhere between eight and 10 weeks. The Everest expedition is scheduled for May 2010 and will entail climbing and camping in inhospitable terrain and unforgiving, cold to reach the summit at 8,848metres. <br /><br />Climbing is a logistical challenge: the team needs the support of a specialist organisation to take care of equipment, flights, porters (two sherpas for each climber), food, water, visas, transport and equipment. The missing piece in the jigsaw is Victor Saunders, the guide, who has climbed Everest four times in the last five years. Victor calls himself a cautious coward. He was chosen on the basis of reputation, which is basically measured on the number of people he has got safely up and down the mountain. He’s known as a warm, level-headed, Scotsman, and is an architect by profession. <br /><br />Training can be gruelling as you need a good cardio-vascular background. Greg runs and cycles. Marco says he’s lucky that he’s lightweight, but admits to doing aerobic exercise running up and down 60 degree clay slopes. “You have to train your mind too. Mountaineers are hard-headed and everyone involved has an opinion,” he says. <br /><br />Timing is everything and often make or break of a climb. There’s only a short season, pre- monsoon, in which to climb the mountain and this can result in a kind of ‘people jam’ on the ascent routes, with up to 200 people all having a go at the same time. “I hate crowded mountains. You can have one to yourself,” Greg mumbles.<br /><br />Climbers have eight hours on oxygen going up, and another eight coming down. In minus 25, sweating, they’re pushing it and running out of time and energy. Hypothermia can start to kick in. “If you don’t make summit before 2pm, you need to turn back. Till now, we’ve never failed a peak. I don’t know how I would react to failure,” says Greg. It’s no surprise that 30 per cent of attempts to climb Everest end up in failure.<br /><br />What makes a good team? The team’s roles seem well-defined: Marco is the logistics person and more of a trekker; Greg is more a mountaineer; Robert is ‘very technical’ and more a climber. Male-bonding is inevitable; if you are going to spend ten weeks in a tent together, you have to get on. “The mountain brings out the worst and best in each of us,” smiles Greg. “You’re dealing with fatigue and bruised egos. Saying we’re all hard-headed is an understatement”. Marco says he finds it relaxing. He can get away from the day to day and the mundane and just concentrate on the task at hand.<br /><br />We skirt around the subject of danger, but it’s something they are reluctant to discuss. “Climbing is dangerous and even more so at high altitudes where the ability to make decisions is hindered by hypoxia and extreme mental and physical exhaustion. Danger is a challenge to be managed both individually and as a team. We’re not madmen. We’re taking a calculated risk. People engage in extreme sports because they are so demanding, mentally and physically, that you live for the ‘now’,” says Marco.<br /><br />If you collapse on a mountain over 8,000 metres, the chances are that you will stay there. They’ve seen a couple of bodies on previous climbs. They’re too heavy, with all that kit, to retrieve without risking other lives. Knowing your limits is key to survival, and that’s where a good guide comes in. He has to know how to push a climber to his maximum capability, but not let him get beyond that. He has to look for tell-tale signs – people getting out of breath for instance. The guide can turns things around if necessary.<br /><br />What makes a man contemplate bad food, no sleep, no sex for 10 weeks, pain, danger, fractures, falls, frostbite, hypothermia, altitude-related injuries, disorders or possible brain damage? The answer seems to be one word: the summit. It’s a loaded word and keeps cropping up in the conversation. It’s as powerful a driver as the purely nationalistic one - to be the first Maltese to climb Everest. There is a sense of history being made. But the real motivation is personal; it’s part dream; part challenging yourself to get out of the comfort zone; and all about ‘pushing yourself to the point where you never thought it was possible to be, mentally and physically.’ They hope that their forthcoming expeditions will inspire people to dream and have a go at turning those dreams into reality. <br /><br />There is nothing as painful as summit day. Their longest climb to a summit to date was 17 hours. “Half way during summit day, you think, this is the last time I am doing this. Once you get to a summit, you have to calculate the energy reserves you have to get back. You may get summit fever. You get intoxicated. That’s the risk. People judge if you are successful if you have got to the summit. Ten metres away doesn’t count. It’s a very cruel thing,” says Greg. <br /><br />What happens when you’ve climbed a mountain? Marco says on the way down he dreams of beer, junk food, and a good shower. Greg says he’d be happy to stay on the peak, and that he gets ‘post-performance depression’ when he gets home. Both men say the mountain is a drug. “We read about mountains every day. We may live here, but we live the mountain each day”.<br /><br />I wonder what it’s like to live with these men. They grin and say the heroes are the women who see them risk their lives, and spend a long time away from home and large sums of money on their lonely passions. Marco says the mountains came after his relationship, and that his wife knows he is cautious, but it’s tough not being able to communicate for long periods of time. He has been away climbing a mountain for one month a year in the past years. Greg says his girlfriend knew that ‘the package involved the mountain. ’ Robert, they tell me, lives for the mountain. I ask them what happens after Everest. Marco squirms. He says he’s agreed to have one shot at Everest and then that’s it. He’s 40 and this is his last big climb. Greg says that he will find some gentler peaks to go for, and perhaps take his girlfriend with him.<br /><br />There are perhaps other limitations on their expeditions though. So far, they’ve been funding themselves, but the big two climbs coming up need funds from corporate sponsors. “Climbing is expensive, so that means I have to work harder when not climbing, “says Robert. Hopefully, corporate sponsors won’t be long in coming since the team’s effort is all in a good cause. Challenge8000 has pledged that throughout the next year it will be promoting awareness of asthma and better air quality in Malta through its association with the Society of Maltese Asthmatics and the ‘Stop the Dust!’ campaign.<br /><br />As they leave, Greg jokes about the frostbite from his last climb and that his big toe is still stuck. Marco says they will be linking up on Etna over the weekend. When they leave, I switch off my laptop, and wonder if I’m any closer to understanding these two complex, gifted men, intoxicated by a summit on the other side of the world.Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-20846514837800091182009-06-20T18:16:00.002+02:002009-06-20T18:18:53.742+02:00Simulating a stormAs summer takes hold and the air thins, others are simulating storms.<br /><br /><object width="560" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/05ip-N0H1Ig&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/05ip-N0H1Ig&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="560" height="340"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-43760456174280283082009-06-07T09:52:00.002+02:002009-06-07T10:02:59.125+02:00Man of his timeI think I will always be able to listen to this man. Master history story-teller. Wonderful and deeply moving to listen to. And doing whatever he can to swim against the tide of stereotypes. <br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/6BlqLwCKkeY&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/6BlqLwCKkeY&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-9834098859584463962009-05-25T16:17:00.000+02:002009-05-25T16:18:02.485+02:00Breaking the rules<div style="width:540px;margin:auto;"><object style="margin:0px" width="538" height="341"><param name="movie" value="http://static.slidesharecdn.com/swf/egowidget2.swf"/><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"/><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"/><embed src="http://static.slidesharecdn.com/swf/egowidget2.swf" flashVars="feedurl=user/alexgrech&widgettitle=My Slideshows" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="538" height="341"></embed></object><br/><div style="font-size:11px;font-family:tahoma,arial;height:26px;padding-top:2px;text-align:left;"><a title="SlideShare" href="http://www.slideshare.net/?src=egowidget"><img src="http://static.slidesharecdn.com/swf/logo_embd.png" style="border:0px none;margin-bottom:-5px" alt="SlideShare"/></a> | <a href="http://www.slideshare.net/widgets/presentation-pack" title="Get your Presentation Pack">Get your Presentation Pack</a></div></div>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-83187236550617402009-02-20T21:51:00.004+01:002009-02-20T22:09:24.311+01:00Mr Blue SkyWhat do you do, when you get blue for no reason? Or for a thousand reasons? Maybe it's because Jacob woke up with a fever and never made it to the school Carnival party in his wizard's costume. Or maybe it's because I'm tired of winter, and credit crunches. Maybe I'm just tired.
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<br /></div><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/98P-gu_vMRc&hl=en&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/98P-gu_vMRc&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object></span>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-85317490490407951252009-01-20T21:10:00.004+01:002009-01-20T21:19:34.942+01:00Obamame<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwxp2sNEBtjXS1v3xbj1VJAFKsQUN4pJK_Suu1SuclmmD6La_AE30YIvFHjMSxK5HQXLmRXnhUKbiCOeb6IPIxFK0muoEmP52utbRdi6neHi91U6IHrcEfaTrMzN_mNxGXVszoVw/s1600-h/change.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 269px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwxp2sNEBtjXS1v3xbj1VJAFKsQUN4pJK_Suu1SuclmmD6La_AE30YIvFHjMSxK5HQXLmRXnhUKbiCOeb6IPIxFK0muoEmP52utbRdi6neHi91U6IHrcEfaTrMzN_mNxGXVszoVw/s400/change.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293470995186206306" /></a><br /><div>The best velvet glove 18-minute speech I've heard for a long time.</div><div>Whatever this man will achieve, he has already changed the lexicon of politics for ever.</div><div>Even managed to silence a six year-old. Jacob knew it was history, all right.</div><div>And for a day, thanks to <a href="http://obamiconme.pastemagazine.com/">this</a>, even you can bask in the great man's glory.</div>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-78719138926115507232008-12-31T15:33:00.015+01:002008-12-31T16:49:08.684+01:0011 Wishes<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUYjf7W_DJeA-yHYxyfUhvUQDwqgDD-aGXveP_Iz0e7r22NS_oL0xNfy7dFUJ2a4ctXtKd2vc-BrdSZzmfJOwEOZpVQMgiaySGhWXhqefxnRwNgPxu7wKlXESvgWzzARCfFRFTgg/s1600-h/IMG_4702.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 226px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUYjf7W_DJeA-yHYxyfUhvUQDwqgDD-aGXveP_Iz0e7r22NS_oL0xNfy7dFUJ2a4ctXtKd2vc-BrdSZzmfJOwEOZpVQMgiaySGhWXhqefxnRwNgPxu7wKlXESvgWzzARCfFRFTgg/s320/IMG_4702.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285981344445202754" /></a><div><ol><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Exercise</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Write</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Insiders</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Coach</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Learn</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Travel</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Love</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Heal</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Connect</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Strength</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Go </span></span><br /></li></ol></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); "></span></div>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-84507805797159178342008-12-25T11:56:00.005+01:002008-12-25T22:40:04.410+01:00Christmas is for kidsWe had a sleepover for Christmas. My 4 year-old niece, Scarlett, stayed over, so her parents could get find time this morning to clean up the house after the Christmas Eve party.<br /><br />At 6.15, there was the first fragment of conversation from the kids' room. Santa had delivered, Jacob was tearing into the contents of the sack on his bed, and Scarlett was screeching at the Barbie and the pink fake make up kit. There's little you can do except surface from what's left of the alcohol stupour of the night before and mumble instructions about toilet doors, clothes, tripping over spiral stairways, breakfast soon on the way.<br /><br />You grasp your first mug of hot coffee, look at the exhausted face of the mother of your child, and hope the caffeine will somehow carry you through the day. <br /><div><br /></div><div>And the day swims by. We get to my brother's in a heap for lunch, spend four hours eating too much turkey and Jamie Oliver stuff, watch an old Muppets Christmas Special, drowned in the sound of squabbling kids and adults sneaking the occasional slurred cat nap. Two girls aged 4 and 5 gang up on my son aged 6 and scream they both want to marry him, and he doesn't know where to look. The presents arrive late, my father is tired and has more wrinkles than last year and there are not enough bags around for the booty we have to carry back home.</div><div><br /></div><div>And then I find out that <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7799708.stm">Pinter has died</a>. </div><div><br /></div><div>Christmas is about kids. It's about waiting for the next present, the next kiss, the next distant relative to plant a smacker on your nose and ruffle your hair until you are well and truly exhausted and can finally crawl back to your bed and start counting the presents in your head. </div><div><br /></div><div>There is no other day in the calendar which makes me more aware of time slipping through my fingers and the resourceful networks of family than Christmas day.</div>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-81163004141000227812008-12-06T18:52:00.002+01:002008-12-06T18:57:49.817+01:00The Whistler and the last tambourine man<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtAzl23RZ8PMi9H0T7AH0l2ozOP79THTd2CZIAG-so5cXsi2_6w1FX18W3PzupvO2Fqo4KnhU-57U6mpKKcdo1IoqzijQTs8qG8YaySjEgMq45EhQHn-oRyxjur3GwV_7TbSgO8w/s1600-h/IMG_4374.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtAzl23RZ8PMi9H0T7AH0l2ozOP79THTd2CZIAG-so5cXsi2_6w1FX18W3PzupvO2Fqo4KnhU-57U6mpKKcdo1IoqzijQTs8qG8YaySjEgMq45EhQHn-oRyxjur3GwV_7TbSgO8w/s320/IMG_4374.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276737386629597922" /></a><p class="MsoNormal">Tommy Camilleri spent the first seven years of his working life opening blocked drains.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Then he got fed up inhaling fumes and he got a job as a road sweeper in Naxxar.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“It’s good work if you want to get to know everyone in Naxxar,” he shrugs.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Tommy is the last tambourine player of <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Malta</st1:place></st1:country-region>. The <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">tanbur </i>is the poor man’s tambourine:<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>the frame is made from beech wood and sheep skin, often with some decorative <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">tberfil</i> painting on the skin. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>A wooden loop (<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">cirku</i>) slides over the frame like a belt clasping the skin. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The jingles (<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">plattini</i>) were traditionally made from the lids of food preservative cans. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Tommy played with some of the finest folk musicians of his generation - <span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language:EN">Toni Cachia ‘<i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Ħammarun’</i></span>, Ganni <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">il-</i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language:EN">Ħ</span>awli</i>.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>They played in hotels for tourists, in Carnivals, during Christmas, at weddings and for anyone who would pay.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Like all tambourine men, Tommy was the front man for the band, with his own well-rehearsed act.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Then, in the second half of the last century, Maltese folk music went into terminal decline.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And now the people Tommy used to play with are all dead.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">He turns up for our appointment on a Tuesday morning in his finery:<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>cap, black waistcoat, matching pin-striped trousers, white shirt, black sandals.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He refuses a glass of wine at the Mqabba Band Club because he says he is recovering from a heavy night.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Behind his thick glasses, I could make out watery eyes.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Tommy is 78 going on to 98.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He’s tiny and quiet and weaves his hands nervously on his lap.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Just as the acrid black coffee kicks in, we are joined by a beaming Guzi Sciberras, also known as <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">‘Il-Mija’.</i> <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Mija</i> is 57, and clearly still relishing early retirement from the Dockyard, where he was a Charge Man.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He now makes the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">flejguta</i>, the Maltese end-blown cane flute.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It’s his idea that we should talk in his field ‘next to the Torri Vincenti’.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“It’s where I find my space and peace and quiet.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I’ve been spending all my spare time there since 1967,” he says.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">The glue between the tambourine man and the flute maker is Ruben Zahra, the freelance composer who<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black;"> often uses folk material within his contemporary works.</span></span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Ruben is in a race to save traditional instruments from extinction.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“Together with Guzi Gatt, I’ve listened to hours of 1960s recordings of Maltese folk music.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>All the core Maltese traditional instruments - the <i>żaqq</i>, the Maltese bagpipe, the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">tanbur</i>, and the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">flejguta</i> – have stopped being made, for more than a generation.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>In the case of the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">flejguta,</i> we could not even find one. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>But we knew the sound it made.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We decided to try and make these instruments before we lose them forever.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Our research led us to the makers of traditional bird whistles.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Enter <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">il-Mija</i>.’<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Mija</i>’s piece of solace is a tongue of soil and a stone hut right by the perimeter fence of the airport. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>In the middle of the patch is a beehive with an open door.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I immediately think of bird traps and sense that this place was a killing <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>fields of sorts, at some stage. “We used to bait the guys from the RAF for some morsels, through the fence, when we were kids,” grins <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">il-Mija</i>.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“Don’t worry about the bees,” he adds, as one zooms past my left ear.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Mija</i> opens a box over-spilling with <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">pluvieri, </i>the Maltese bird whistles.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He’s like a kid with the cookie jar.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The names of birds roll off his tongue as he goes through a demonstration of the sound each whistle makes.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“This one is<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"> Il-birwina </i>– listen carefully!<i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></i>This is the<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"> tellerita.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></i>This is the<i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal"> gurlin.”</i><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It is difficult not to get intoxicated by the childish delight of a man who has spent 40 years making whistles.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And as for the sound – if you close your eyes, you could believe that you were in the midst of bird song that most people in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Malta</st1:place></st1:country-region> can only imagine.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black;">Maltese traditional instruments were made from locally-sourced material: <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>ashwood, cane, string, animal skins and cow horns.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Mija</i> is both an artisan and a recycling man.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>In the true spirit of the Maltese, nothing is wasted.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He showed us whistles made from the bone of a horse’s leg, a piece of walnut, and the tubing from an old car tyre.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“You cannot make one of these things unless you are a whistler yourself.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The cane needs to be firm, dry and straight – but most of all you need to understand tone.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>If you are going to fake a bird into thinking another bird is calling, you have to master this with precision.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>There is no margin for error.”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">We ask him about his tools.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He laughs and shows us another box:<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>a hand drill, a vice, a scalpel, a chisel. “I’m not interested in TV.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I have made 89 whistles till now.” <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Making the flejguta is just another challenge.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The air is directed against the sharp edge of a hole cut in the cane just below the mouth piece. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Six finger holes along the length of the flute produce different tones and distinguish the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">flejguta</i> from the simple whistle.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Ruben thinks it’s time to get to the music, unfurls the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">zaqq</i> from his bag and coaxes Tommy into playing a tune, right there, against the wall. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Coming face to face with <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Iz-zaqq</i> is a bit of a shock – half goat, complete with tail, half whistle; the weirdest of instruments.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color:black;">Its bag is made from goat skin, its chanter from two cane tubes and a horn that projects its drones</span></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color:black;">.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">When Tommy plays, he is like one of those Wallis & Gromit<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Plastecene men, moving in slow-motion.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>The tambourine is in perpetual motion, and the man seems stuck to the tambourine.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>One moment it’s under his leg, then against his knee, then it hits an elbow, then it’s under the crescent of his darting fingers.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And the music is familiar, Moorish, raw and sad rolled into one.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I am told later that <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Hammarun</i> played the same melody on the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">zaqq </i>all his life.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">When they finish, I don’t know whether to clap or just relish the moment.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Instead, Matthew’s camera moves and snaps the moment. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I ask Tommy what he thought of the new <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">tambur</i> Ruben is producing, as he cradles it on his lap.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“I like its voice,” he whispers.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“Remember that the first sounds that Christ heard were <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">iz-zaqq</i> and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">the tanbur.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></i>These are instruments of the shepherd.”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He cocks his head like a thoughtful dog when <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">il-Mija</i> announces that we cannot leave before we share a drink with him.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">I watch the jet planes take off and ask Tommy about playing abroad.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“I’ve never been on a plane,” he says.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“I’m scared of heights .<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Even going up in a lift is not good for me. ” </p> <p class="MsoNormal">The two men have different ideas about legacy.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Tommy has five children, il-Mija has two, none of them are musicians.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Tommy says one of his granddaughters has promise.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Il-Mija boasts:<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>‘My craft will die with me.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Besides, if I teach someone, will they attribute credit where credit is due?’<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He etches his ‘100’ mark on the back of all his whistles.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Somehow, there are different egos at play here.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">“<st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Malta</st1:place></st1:country-region> is the only European country which does not provide folk instruments as a cultural product on a retail basis,” says Ruben. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>“We’re trying to do something about that, before we lose this cultural heritage for ever.”<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>With a mix of determination and entrepreneurship, the new Maltese <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">tanbur</i> is being made in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Spain</st1:place></st1:country-region>.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I guess you have to start from somewhere to reclaim your past.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">On a humid morning in Mqabba, the bees buzzed, the jet engines screeched and the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">zaqq </i>droned and flirted with the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">tambur.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></i>And our heads were filled with folk music, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">Il-Mija’s</i> excellent J&B and the indelible passage of time.</p>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-33830077313479681432008-12-04T12:41:00.006+01:002008-12-04T12:52:46.987+01:00Change yourself<span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:'Times New Roman';"><div style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 3px; padding-right: 3px; padding-bottom: 3px; padding-left: 3px; width: auto; font: normal normal normal 100%/normal Georgia, serif; text-align: left; ">Obama managed to energise a nation and most of the western world into believing that change was possible, against a background of collapsing markets, war, strife, bigotry and overall disillusionment with the way the US came to be perceived after 8 years of George Bush.<div><br /></div><div>Seth Godin is about to change the lives of some lucky people. Very soon. The details are <a href="http://www.squidoo.com/Alternative-MBA">here</a>. </div><div><br /></div><div>Even just applying for this is enough of a paradigm shift, for most people.</div><div><br /></div><div>January is round the corner. New York City, for some people, is going to become the promised land.</div><div><br /></div><div>New year and new directions beckon like no other year.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div></span>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-30701722442406511262008-11-28T21:48:00.003+01:002008-11-29T00:15:01.171+01:00The tooth fairyMy son lost his first tooth this morning. I woke up to find him with his nose pressed against the mosquito net. In the half dark, I could just make out his open mouth.<div><br /></div><div>"It just came off!" he sobbed, his hand cradling a tiny tooth.</div><div><br /></div><div>I tried to comfort him as best as I could. I cracked jokes about pirates. I hugged him, and for a moment could remember all the teeth I had lost, before dentists could get their pointed instruments on their eventual replacements.</div><div><br /></div><div>Then I remembered the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tooth_fairy">tooth fairy</a>. </div><div><br /></div><div>We didn't get as far as a tooth under a pillow this evening. Instead, it nestles on a saucer, on his bookcase, waiting to be whisked to a place where everthing is available for barter. An eye for an eye. A tooth for a tooth. </div><div><br /></div><div>And by tomorrow morning, there will be three euros, in place of Jacob's tooth, to buy another Roald Dahl book, and another story to spin.</div>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-76520718923563892782008-09-10T01:18:00.001+02:002008-09-10T01:20:07.578+02:00The beautiful elbowElbow are finally being recognised as the great band they are. <br /><br /><object width="384" height="328"><param name="movie" value="http://www.bbc.co.uk/emp/external/player.swf"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="FlashVars" value="config_settings_suppressCodec=h264&config_settings_skin=silver&playlist=http://www.bbc.co.uk/musicevents/emp/mercuryprize2008/elbow_mercury.xml&config_settings_showFooter=true&"></param><embed src="http://www.bbc.co.uk/emp/external/player.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="384" height="328" flashvars="config_settings_suppressCodec=h264&config_settings_skin=silver&playlist=http://www.bbc.co.uk/musicevents/emp/mercuryprize2008/elbow_mercury.xml&config_settings_showFooter=true&"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-49540323519416659622008-08-16T22:58:00.004+02:002008-08-16T23:13:14.031+02:00Visualising ItYou watch Usain Bolt <a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/sport/olympics/article4547874.ece">smash his own 100m world record</a> in 9.69 and start to celebrate 10m from the end.<br /><br />You watch Michael Phelps <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080816/ap_on_sp_ol/oly_swm_swimming">collect his seventh gold medal</a> and know he is just going to get his eighth tomorrow.<br /><br />Then you see the glint in Bolt's eye as he poses in front of the Jamaican fans, and hear Phelps say 'I don't believe anything is impossible, if you really want it.'<br /><br />Visualise it. Execute it. Just like Philippe Petit did, in August 1974, when <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1155592/">he walked the tightrope</a> between the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center in NYC.<br /><br />These guys truly walk on air.<br /><br /><br /><object width="400" height="265"><param name="movie" value="http://www.manonwire.com/trailer.swf"><param name="wmode" value="transparent"><embed src="http://www.manonwire.com/trailer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="400" height="265"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-6163073618090771982008-08-03T22:44:00.003+02:002008-08-03T22:59:19.990+02:00I'm reading Stephen Covey's The 8th Habit, about finding your inner voice. It's compelling reading. Then I came across this video, and it made me realise how much I wish I had learnt a musical instrument, and how to use my hands.<br /><br />--><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0" width="432" height="285" id="VE_Player" align="middle"><param name="movie" value="http://static.videoegg.com/ted2/flash/loader.swf"><PARAM NAME="FlashVars" VALUE="bgColor=FFFFFF&file=http://static.videoegg.com/ted/movies/BrunoBowden_2008-embed-[None]_high.flv&autoPlay=false&fullscreenURL=http://static.videoegg.com/ted/flash/fullscreen.html&forcePlay=false&logo=&allowFullscreen=true"><param name="quality" value="high"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"><param name="scale" value="noscale"><param name="wmode" value="window"><embed src="http://static.videoegg.com/ted2/flash/loader.swf" FlashVars="bgColor=FFFFFF&file=http://static.videoegg.com/ted/movies/BrunoBowden_2008-embed-[None]_high.flv&autoPlay=false&fullscreenURL=http://static.videoegg.com/ted/flash/fullscreen.html&forcePlay=false&logo=&allowFullscreen=true" quality="high" allowScriptAccess="always" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" scale="noscale" wmode="window" width="432" height="285" name="VE_Player" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></object></embed>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-76392207032184723762008-07-30T09:27:00.006+02:002008-07-30T21:38:28.769+02:00Randy Pausch is gone<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randy_Pausch">Randy Pausch </a>died on July 25th, from pancreatic cancer. He was 47. In the US, he became a phenomenon in the last year of his life. Just in case you've never heard of Randy, <a href="http://download.srv.cs.cmu.edu/~pausch/news/index.html">this</a> is a link to his home page and his story. Just google his name. He is up there with the greats when it comes to You Tube hits.<br /><br />Randy lived his dreams. Even more so when he got news of the dreaded 'C' and knew that the ticking clock was for real.<br /><br />We all need a wake up call, sometimes. To get us out of our comfort zone. And follow our passions, maximise our talents, and listen to our heart.<br /><br />I'm 47 tomorrow.<br /><br /><embed id="VideoPlayback" style="width:400px;height:326px" allowFullScreen="true" src="http://video.google.com/googleplayer.swf?docid=362421849901825950&hl=en&fs=true" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"> </embed>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-31671918796820873602008-07-18T09:33:00.003+02:002008-07-18T09:40:25.443+02:00Boy Grows Up<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWlkcINjWUvSEcFPJe3bCX4Rv0UHFF8OOjjEaRLUOf656U_KBlM1j__MNx3f3kO2oSZOR5LePKyIECzFJAAEuGH78pGnknSUhufrzSQhFUu2OyCE0WO0TEOhFaGeUISmBsTluwMg/s1600-h/Alex+and+Jacob+June+08.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWlkcINjWUvSEcFPJe3bCX4Rv0UHFF8OOjjEaRLUOf656U_KBlM1j__MNx3f3kO2oSZOR5LePKyIECzFJAAEuGH78pGnknSUhufrzSQhFUu2OyCE0WO0TEOhFaGeUISmBsTluwMg/s320/Alex+and+Jacob+June+08.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5224254437765364850" /></a><br /><em>Sons bring you gifts from the heart. Drooping dandelions. Half-eaten bags of potato chips. Saveloys. Plastic daffodils. Pop- eyed plaster pug dogs. Cans of lager. Strange scent. Second-hand books – tatty or antique. Hugs.</em><br />Pam Brown, b. 1928.<br /><br />Sometime in 1977, in the full flush of testosterone rebellion, I shared my theory of parental responsibility with my late mother. ‘I don’t owe you guys anything,” I chortled, from my perch on the battered kitchen cupboard. “I never asked to be brought to this planet. If I ever decide to make a child, the same rule will apply to me. I won’t expect anything in return from my child. In fact, I’ll owe my child everything. That’s how the world goes.’ And my mother’s eyes watered and she bit her lip: ‘You’ll only understand something about your life if you find someone unfortunate enough to give you a child.’<br /><br />Men will eternally fret about this parenthood business. Two weeks ago in Rome, I was collected by a short taxi driver called Fabrizio who blurted out that he had just found his girlfriend was pregnant. I spontaneously launched into a checklist of scans, communications strategy (don’t tell anyone, till 3 months have gone), pre-natal holidays and the real costs of baby gear (say yes to hand-me downs). I exited the cab leaving the guy looking more bewildered than grateful. <br /><br />My son Jacob is nearly six. I’m past the terror stage with parenthood. My life has morphed seamlessly from three year-old tantrums to a maze of cartoons, puppets, teachers, egos, giggles, homework, parties, wizards, waiting, rushing, mid-air hugs, a story every night at bed time.<br /><br />I’m like millions of other men: running to keep up with the constant change. Most times, I’m just left playing catch up. I have no idea how he worked out how to use a mouse, let alone a Playstation console. In one week, he went from staccato reading to something close to writing his own poetry. At this age, a child’s brain is a sponge while your middle-aged version stutters and loses hundreds of neurons a day. <br /><br />Sons bring exclamation marks into your life. They hang out of the back window of your car, repeat your expletives in front of strangers, see things you have forgotten to notice. Don’t you still wish you could still feel the wind on your face, making soup of your hair, caressing you like you didn’t have a care in the world?<br /><br />Nobody can touch my Saturday mornings. Rain or shine, most times we’re walking from Manoel Island to Sliema for our breakfast and cornettos. The timeshare touts and the harbour cruise guys look at his hair and try and sell us stuff on the way. Jacob has taken to saying ‘Jiena patrijott Malti’ to facilitate our passage. It doesn’t help that he likes collecting brochures for his scrapbook <br /><br />Kids this age want to belong. So you struggle with haircuts, clothing, anything that they think differentiates them from the world they roam in. You still get tears. Pickles the bear gets spun in the washing machine when nobody is looking. <br /><br />Young kids don’t lie. Well, not much. “How come you have such a big, fat belly?” screamed Amber, at a portly executive Dad at a kids’ party. “How come you’ve lost your pants?” retorted her cousin at the edge of the pool. Truth is brutal and harmless, slices through the crap we concoct as adults to keep things under wraps, get on with people and survive the day to day. <br /><br />Some things are being figured out. “Is it possible for grown ups not to work in an office and do work they like? I’d rather paint pictures and have people pay me for that!” There is a growing sense of what is right and wrong. The worst thing you can do, to a child, is accuse him of a misdemeanour he has not done. <br /><br />Sex kicks in early. They are suddenly aware of their bodies and private parts. Changing on the beach is becoming a bit of a shenanigans. The girls on the playground already have older boyfriends. The boys slam into each other, play Power Rangers. Jacob watches his cousin Scarlett doing her ballerina pirouettes with a mix of affection and bewilderment. <br /><br />Imagination runs riot. I need to write down his tales of Oink the Pig, the Bully Beef Butcher out to get Oink’s bacon and Dr Snitch the wily rat trying to make sure he doesn’t. I keep the first poem he wrote in my laptop case. <br /><br />I still can’t do discipline. Where do you draw the line when a child turns up his nose at tomatoes with a summer looming of only tomatoes to buy and eat? I watch his fork hovering over his plate and remember my terror of anything remotely green or orange. Though his phobia is red. <br /><br />Kids magnify your own inadequacies. I was never good at making kites. I don’t understand the big deal about knights and sieges, or goldfish who speak to him at night. I worry about him spending too much time with adults, and whether an only child invariably grows earnest and distant and bookish. Then I watch him in a scrum with some school friends and I heave a sigh of relief.<br /><br />The older he gets, the more questions I have. What’s the difference between assertiveness and arrogance? Standing on his own feet and not standing on someone else’s toes? How can I help him grow the thick skin I’ve never had? At what time do children realise that you are not ‘Mr know it all’; that you are vulnerable, like they are; that on a bad day, because of the life baggage we have, we can be far from role models and be total scum bags? How can we just not give them baggage, period? <br /><br />He now understands that death is the end of life. Ants die, cats die, people in his book on famous people die. I take him through some scanned pictures of my mother. He wants to know why hospitals could not save her. <br /><br />Sometimes I blink, and see networks of my family tree over his shoulder. I look at his flat feet and despair at the genetic legacy I have bequeathed him. There are nights when my fear of loss are the trigger for nightmares that every parent experiences; sometimes I close my eyes and think of his goofy face to keep out the dark stuff.<br /><br />I know the connected, virtual, online world he is inhabiting is far removed from my safe, island childhood. And that’s OK. Because we are finally raising citizens of the world, not little islanders. <br /><br />Everybody wants something for their child. I want to give mine a trampoline for his life and his dreams. I want to find time and space for him – away from the baying attention of phones, computers, the need to make a living. Hopefully, I will remember something about my own growing up pains and not pass them on to him. When the time comes, I hope I will not make a total ass of myself. And just let go.<br /><br />All I want is for my child to know that I continue to muddle in this parenthood business in good faith. And that every time I think of him, wherever I am, or see his face on my mobile, I smile and know that at least I got one thing right in my life.<br /><br />I do owe my child. Everything.Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-91043231539502420942008-05-10T23:12:00.002+02:002008-05-10T23:20:06.992+02:00Lost in Transition<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOcvqRyptqdaACnciOAI0dZKcFPSAcErHlO7zfSfH0f4WAzi__HV3C_i4Pq-59y6UIzuDltIndb7lQdYhE_JqUNjXmHrXANSyyW2lOKl8tTys3j2Uu2NrEqSnb3Lvbdw-UCjg3Jw/s1600-h/IMG_1833.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOcvqRyptqdaACnciOAI0dZKcFPSAcErHlO7zfSfH0f4WAzi__HV3C_i4Pq-59y6UIzuDltIndb7lQdYhE_JqUNjXmHrXANSyyW2lOKl8tTys3j2Uu2NrEqSnb3Lvbdw-UCjg3Jw/s320/IMG_1833.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5198861160547905842" /></a><br />When I was a child, Luqa Airport was the crumbling gateway to holidays, real chocolate and escape. Things change. You grow up, your hair thins, you join a generation of suits with red eyes whose working life keeps them on the move. Until you find yourself in another airport and you stop. <br /><br />Everyone has an airport story to tell. 300 cancelled flights and a mountain of 28,000 bags over 5 days means a lot of people will shiver at the mere mention of London Heathrow’s new £4.5bn Terminal 5. Somewhere, in Milan or Memphis, lies the unreturned luggage of a passenger who died on a BA flight from Hong Kong to Heathrow on 2 April. “To lose the luggage of a dead person is unforgivable," said his son. <br /><br />There is something mildly surreal about airports. There are silent airports, electric ones, sad ones, others crackling with life. In most, design has gone riot. Spider-like structures morph out of steel tubes, concrete. Everything seems to be vacuum-wrapped in plastic. The wavy roof at Barajas Airport is supposed to be calming. <br /><br />Once you arrive, you are sucked into a conveyor-belt of queues. It’s like being back in primary school. There are lines for check-in, then passport check, then security, then the gate, then your seat on the aircraft and then baggage reclaim, immigration and customs checks at the other end. Whether you’re the Pope or Paris Hilton, at some stage, you’re just going to have to queue. <br /><br />Sandwiched, between the queues, is so-called consumer heaven. Airports are the new plazas, the new town squares. Brands elbow each other for space and your attention. The familiar has made way for the more exotic Giraffes, Wagamamas, and Victoria’s Secrets. There is food for the mind and for the soul. Mountains of pastries, fine leathers, silk ties, smoked salmon, designer trainers, sunglasses, ice cubes, gadgetry. The new colour for luggage is lime. I purchase my guilt offering to a five year-old who doesn’t quite understand why I have to be away.<br /><br />This is a good place to go numb. To remember that you forgot to take the suit to the dry cleaners. That Dad’s birthday is round the corner. You are lulled to stupor by security ding dongs. Do not leave anything unattended. The fire alarm is just a test, do not be alarmed. The flight announcements at Sofia Airport are made by a girl who is into James Bond movies. <br /><br />So you ease yourself into a rich tapestry of people watching. A carousel of rabbis, happy shoppers, modern gunslingers, window cleaners with yellow stripes silhouetted against a backdrop of buses and snow-capped mountains. Women with golden handbags and gentlemen with leather holsters. ID Tags. A rose tattoo quivers on the wrist of a waitress with jet-black hair. People hang on to kids, the kids struggle out of the leashes of their comfort zones. Awkward teenagers rub shoulders with silver surfers with men in crumpled suits with nervous blackberries. Deals on the run. Newspapers with Cyrillic lettering. Shields. Feet. Clacking heels. Phones that refuse to stop bleeping. You drum out text messages to people you love, to people you hardly know. Pot bellies, hairy bellies, pregnant bellies. Pouts. A Pekinese lady in a cat suit purrs in the ear of the guy with a bullet head in front of gate B3 at 07.17. <br /><br />There is humour where you least expect it. The Zurich Airport shuttle has a soundtrack of mooing cows and tinkling bells. “We’ll soon have you naked,” winks the Customs girl in Gatwick, as I studiously remove my belt, my watch, my shoes, my jacket and place it in the plastic box. A granny sets off the alarm system and watches sheepishly as a stranger fiddles with her bra strap. A friend missed a plane and sleeps at a gate at Rome airport next to an attractive girl from Serbia. They raided the Duty free for hams and cheese once they realised the restaurants had closed.<br /><br />Things go wrong. The checkout girl fixes her makeup and cannot be bothered to check if your bag can be checked straight home. Suitcases break. Suitcases go missing. You arrive in a heap in Vienna from Sofia to find the Air Malta flight is doing a little detour back east to Budapest. A 5am flight to Rome via Reggio is delayed by an hour because Reggio Airport does not open in time to greet the Air Malta flight. <br /><br />Perfectly rational people turn to gibbering wrecks within a matter of seconds. Anxiety mounts as the bags roll off the carousel. You look in envy at jolly fellow passengers with red suitcases and redder arms. In a noisy toilet it is possible to experience soaring resentment. I start feeling a sense of brotherhood with people who vandalise toilet flushings and write cryptic graffiti on the doors. <br /><br />Who are these people, who piss on the floor, refuse to flush, spill cartons of coffee and stuff half-eaten burgers into the folds of pseudo-leather seats?<br />You tune into conversations. <em>“I cannot just live on love and air! Either they pay me my share or I make sure the contract dies! She had keyhole surgery in March. We’re waiting. And this is how you pop your ears. Stop pulling your tongue at that old man. What do you mean, he winked at you?” </em><br /><br />Do we need to be dragging all this luggage, all these designer tags? How many of us will still be here, in a year’s time? You eye up the size of your fellow-passengers’ hand luggage and just hope that seat 6D is not next to the Jehovah Witness with a loose bladder.<br /><br />I close my eyes and try and drift for lift off. An airport is a Faustian farce, full of ants rushing to make it to the top of the ant-hill. We are all cattle now, herded from one check point to the next. Perhaps that is why airports have terminals and gates. We are here to be bounced by a pin-ball machine from one holding point to the next. One day someone will see the business opportunity in running therapy courses for air travellers.<br /><br />Then the plane starts to board and I am on my feet to join the shuffle before I know it. We are all going somewhere. We all have other lives. We are all nomads now.Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8467911.post-53407026233416031272008-02-04T23:04:00.000+01:002008-02-05T12:29:45.344+01:0071"I just sing in the bathroom these days. I sing some of the tunes I used to perform with a sense of nostalgia. It's frustrating, that I cannot project my voice the way I used to. But I have to accept that my strength is no longer there, even though the voice is. The voice is the last thing that dies. Because, when we're about to leave the world, we just sigh and let go."<br /><br /><a href="http://www.paulasciak.com/template.php?page=biography">Paul Asciak</a>, aged 85, former tenor and first tutor of <a href="http://www.josephcalleja.com/">Joseph Calleja</a>, Malta's finest tenor. <br /><br /><br />Tomorrow my father is 71. Quite a milestone for him, and for us. I cannot remember celebrating my parents' birthdays, when I was a child. After all, life revolved around us kids, not grown-ups.<br /><br />I guess all that changed, once I had my own child.<br /><br />What also changed is that I live in perpetual fear of losing people I love. <br /><br />Doesn't everyone?<br /><br />So this evening I embed this little, twisted black video here, to chase away my fears. And in honour of my father - who has lived his life, his way, despite more than his share of deaths and misfortunes. <br /><br />Since cheating death is not a viable option, there is much to learn from my father. In his winter years, he has became adept at living for the day, for the moment, for the 90-minutes duration of a Milan match and a beer with his friends. My father just refuses to grow up. So when I see him with my five year-old, it's not difficult to know which one of the kids is the wiser. Or the merrier.<br /><br />Happy birthday Dad.<br /> <br /><br /><object width="448" height="372"><param name="movie" value="http://api.aniboom.com/embedded.swf?videoar=53167" /><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><embed src="http://api.aniboom.com/embedded.swf?videoar=53167" quality="high" width="448" height="372" allowscriptaccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object>Alexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09300634077969860095noreply@blogger.com0